Using a dildo or a vibrator on yourself while having anal sex is a great way to ensure you and your man are both having a good time. I love the sensations of being spread open, I love the wild sensations of having someone stimulate my ass and I love anal orgasms. You can experience what it's like to be in power and in control of your man. If your partner isn't exactly well-hung, then deep penetration might be OK. More From All about orgasms.
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Therefore it needs extra stuff to make penetration comfortable, more enjoyable, and to protect you from injury. To find it, wash your hands with a mild soap and warm water. Did you know the vagina and rectum were neighbors? You might also wish to remove any hair around your anus by shaving or waxing it off, but that comes down to personal preference. That said, before we talk about the A-spot, we need to have a quick chat about the clitoris.